I usually wake up at a reasonable time on Saturday mornings. I do just stay in bed because I know if I do, I wont have to deal with what happens in my home when my wife is working in the mornings I am off.
So this morning, I wake to the sounds of the little baby screaming and the other older child crying as well, but like I said, I stayed in bed and tried to ignore it. I also heard the shower going, so someone was in the shower.
After a bit of time, I did eventually get up, because I had to use the bathroom so bad, when I come out of my room, the girlfriend has a towel around her head as if she was just in the shower. She handed me my work phone saying that it had gotten wet from the older child puking right by it, which was right on my side of the couch where I normally sit. She then explains the smallest child was asleep when she went in to take her shower, because she had to work at noon today. I go to the bathroom real fast, then I work on settling the smallest child, to get him from crying and screaming, while she changed the older one out of his diaper and puke covered clothes.
After things seem well, I ask her if my son was home and she said he had just gone to bed not too long before I got up. I just shake my head knowing this happens all the time.
Mind you, my son knew she had to work at noon, knew my wife would be home between 11am and 12pm. He still elected to stay up all night and drink, knowing this and went to bed. I also have a thought he may have done coke again, because when he stays up all night, that is usually the reason.
Now, my son usually complains the most when he doesn't get his way, when there isn't enough food in the house when he wants some. He also is the last to offer to pay for anything with the home, including possible rent for him and his gf and kids, or help with groceries or utilities.
His gf got paid also last night, which she had to pay back her weed person, because they owed him $120, then my son tells his gf, that he needs to bother the other $80 from her and will give it back to her today, which we all know what will happen, yep, let's see if that happens.
His gf tries to do the right things, tries to save money and of course always takes care of their kids, we really dont have anything against her, other than she is with my son.
A day in the life of a father in his 40s with adult kids still living with him
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